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September 30 Catching a Husband
作者:SUSAN CHYN 时间:2007-10-31 期号:728
RECENT accounts
in the media suggest that there may be a growing number of Chinese university
women who spend significant amounts of time searching for husbands.
Rather than risk spinning their wheels preparing for a job that might never
materialize, these young women put everything on hold to find financial and
social security. The philosophy seems to be, "Quick! Get me a marriage
license, and throw in a house and car while you're at it." Careers come
later, if at all.
I find this
news more than a little troubling. These women seem determined to cash in on
their youth, good looks and college degrees before walking out into the world
and carving a path of their own.
Where in these women is the passion to walk out into the world and make
themselves a place in it? Where is the willingness to take a little time in
life for self-discovery? Life is, to borrow the line from the car commercial,
not about the destination, but the journey.
There are clear parallels with a western phenomenon. The
"Millennials", the no-nonsense generation of children born in the
1980s, are said to have a "self-esteem bubble" and an undeserved
sense of entitlement. Yet they have also proven themselves to be a task-oriented
group that knows how to get things done quickly. Networking on dating and
matchmaking websites comes naturally. Like their counterparts in China,
Millennials are not as willing to wait as their parents were. They want
short-cuts.
True, balancing career and family is no picnic. The pressure is great, the
choices are tough. Still, think for a moment about a woman's choices in feudal
times: Back then, one's parents chatted with a matchmaker and that was that.
Women didn't need to step out into the world. They could do embroidery in their
bedrooms and still end up with a house and a car (well, maybe a horse or two).
The point is that facing tough choices usually means that one has the freedom
to make those choices. Cashing in one's chips too soon might mean throwing away
choice and missing out on an incredible journey. If you have any lingering
doubts, just take a look around at Wu Yi and other talented college graduates
who have dared to make that journey. I'd say it's worth the trip.
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carve 努力取得
millennial 80和90年代出生的人
esteem 尊重
embroidery 刺绣
feudal 封建制度的
lingering 逗留不去的
materialize 实现
Bonus points
cash in on: 利用
I've read so many dating tips in the magazine, now I need to find a girl to
cash in on my knowledge. 我在杂志上读到了许多关于约会的点子,现在我可要找个女孩利用一下我学到的知识。
spin one's wheel: 采取行动
Her dad span his wheel to find her a job in his work unit. 她父亲使了点儿劲,帮她在自己的单位里找了个职位。
September 10
公告
秦苏珊英语中心
Susan Chyn English Center
2008年9月9日星期二
抓住职场英语的热潮,主宰自己的前途!Workplace English: Catching a Ride to Destiny
| 中心总裁秦苏珊女士将在本月中、下旬应邀参加美国教育考试服务中心(ETS)与智联招聘在全国各地五所高校举办的“全国大学生首届职业英语学习与就业论坛”。苏珊老师是国际知名的英语教学和测评专家,此前长期供职于美国教育考试服务中心,历任ETS托福考试命题总监、托业项目总监、以及亚太市场总监。会上将与大家分享她多年积累的权威经历,并以“抓住职场英语的热潮,主宰自己的前途!Workplace English: Catching a Ride to Destiny!”为题,介绍职场英语对学生未来的重要性,并阐述英语学习的途径和方法。
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武汉大学(人文馆主厅)
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天津
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天津大学(大学生活动中心报告厅)
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9 月19 日
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哈尔滨
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哈尔滨工业大学(一校区正心楼11教室)
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南京
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南京大学(就业指导中心报告厅)
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成都
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四川大学(望江校区文华活动中心)
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September 09
Essay Practice Beiwai Fall 20080907
Please remember to include the essay prompt in your essay. Essay Practice Beiwai Fall 20080915
Please remember to include the essay prompt in your essay. September 08
Tears cleanse and actions hearten us
作者:SUSAN CHYN 时间:2008-06-04 期号:757
IN the wake of the tremors emanating from Wenchuan County, there have been many stories of bravery.
The world has seen heart-wrenching images of courage in the face of danger; of resilience in the face of what seems like the endless movement of the earth. And while the toll of the disaster has yet to be completely fathomed, we can already palpably feel the outpouring of humanity.
This said, the case of Fan Meizhong, the former Chinese language teacher at the Dujiangyan Guangya School, stands out as an exception. By any standards, the actions and words of Fan failed to meet both tests–of heroism and of humanity.
From that fatal hour when the shake first hit to the ensuing days, Fan's actions–or non-actions–were rationalized by many. To the press and the Web community, Fan cited a variety of ism's to explain his behavior. Philosophies from "pan-moralism" to liberalism were invoked; homage was paid to several Russian intellectuals. I was not convinced. Why? In times of need, words pale, tears cleanse and actions hearten.
Fan, along with many in the blogosphere, suggested that heroism is not required in times of disaster. That we should not expect "everyday people" to sacrifice self-interest on behalf of others. That Lei Feng is an exception, a legend of his times. I would argue that nothing is further from the truth.
Heroic acts can–and should–be seen in the everyday world we live in. Seen on a Beijing public bus, when a 13-year-old girl gives up her seat for a 50-year-old man, even when she is dead-tired from school. Seen in Shanghai, when a white-collar businessman waits and holds a door open for a migrant worker and her young child to go in first. Seen in a Jinan dormitory, when a student gives up her Sunday afternoon to nurse a classmate who has fallen ill.
The small but instinctive gestures of unsung heroes are rooted in a common willingness to act. When people are in clear need–especially children and the elderly, we should invariably reach out without thinking about ourselves. As the British orator John Henry Newman once said, "Calculation never made a hero."
Most of us will never fight in a war, put out fires or save lives. But that doesn't let us off the hook. Like shoes and the feet that go into them, heroes come in all shapes and sizes. If we recognize, innately, we are bound by our common humanity, then the choice is simple. When we are able to help people in need, we should.
--------------------------------------- innately 天生就有地 cleanse 纯净 legend 传奇人物 invoke 援引 ism 主义 pan- 表示"全, 总, 泛"之义 palpably 可感觉到地 wrench 猛扭 toll 伤亡人数 resilience 适应力 fathom 彻底了解
Bonus Expressions
in the wake of之后
There're many problems to deal with in the wake of the flood. 洪水过后有很多问题需要处理。
off the hook 从困境中解脱
We found the guy who stole the money, so we know you didn't do it. You're off the hook.
我们找到了偷钱的人,所以这不是你干的,现在你没事了。
pay homage to致敬
Tomb-sweeping day is a time when people pay homage to their dead family members. 人们在清明节祭奠死去的亲人。
Cheats won't stop until we make them
The problem of athlete doping
作者:SUSAN CHYN 时间:2008-08-13 期号:766
ATHLETE doping is decried by sports federations and fans worldwide. Drug testing is more aggressive than ever before. So why do athletes, in anonymous surveys, still answer “Yes” to the question: “If you could get away with it, would you take banned substances?”
Virtually one-third of Australia’s top athletes recently indicated they would use drugs if they could escape detection, according to The Australian newspaper. And a national survey conducted late last year revealed that between 27 and 58 percent of German athletes competing internationally admitted to doping. Throughout the world, the shadow of doping pervades the upper echelons of sports.
Many cheaters get caught. US runner Marion Jones was stripped of five medals in 2007 when she confessed to using steroids at the Sydney Olympic Games. More recently, seven Russian women athletes–all Olympic medal prospects, were provisionally banned from the Beijing Games. Several Indian weightlifters were barred from competing. And three top-tier Chinese athletes have tested positive this year, including the 2004 race walker Song Hongjuan.
And how can athletes ignore the health consequences of steroids and human growth hormones? Study after study has shown doping can lead to high blood pressure, strokes and mood swings. This is scary stuff. So why don’t our athletes stay clean? Is it because we pressure them to win at any cost? Is it because they think “everyone else” is doing it? Or is it because they think they can get away with it?
To the latter point, the World Anti-Doping Agency and national sports federations have been working together to increase the frequency of both in- and out-of-competition testing. About 4,500 tests are planned for the Beijing Olympics, and blood samples are now stored for eight years, so that tests can be conducted long after the athletic event is over, as new technologies evolve. In theory, this should be a powerful deterrent to athletes who are tempted to break the rules.
But I suspect the cheating will continue until spectators and the media make an unequivocal social stand. We should call for winners, but only winners willing to show they are “super clean.” By undergoing extra testing, top athletes can serve as role models and send a clear message to young competitors–who will realize it is possible to win through hard work and training, without compromising their health and their honor.
anonymous 匿名的 boycott 联合抵制 commodity 日用品 decry 谴责 deterrent 制止物 doping 服兴奋剂 echelon 等级 hormone 激素 lavish 慷慨给予 pervade 遍及 provisionally 暂时地 steroid 类固醇 tempt 诱惑 toil 苦干 traffic 买卖 transaction 交易 unequivocal 不含糊的
BONUS Expressions bar from 禁止做某事 She was barred from taking the rest of the exams after getting caught cheating on the first day. 在第一天被发现作弊后,她被禁止参加后面几天的考试。
get away with 违做错事不被发现或受惩罚 Do you think we could get away with using cheaper product? 你觉得我们用便宜的材料能不让人发觉吗?
top-tier 高层次的 Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are three top-tier cities in China. 北京,上海和广州是中国的三大城市。
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